Monday Medley: Memorial Day

Monday Medley: Memorial Day

Memorial Day, one of those scarce three day weekends when Americans try to pack as much living as possible into time off from their routine workweek.  As for me, the kids are playing outside with Dad and I am inside with a napping baby.  I could relax and watch television or read, instead I choose to write this post, while clicking on videos to earn money and working on a craft project to sell on eBay.  My choices are going to facilitate our dream of financial semi-independence, to thrive on more than just weekends and holidays.

Monday Medley

Another week has passed and anxiety about returning to work is starting to creep into my thoughts.  I am trying to channel this depressing realization into staying focused on my goals for maternity leave.  Namely, to spend quality time with my family, save money, make money, and continue implementing our plan for success.  The past week definitely provided us with the opportunity to make progress with all of our goals. 

Money

My blog is off to an amazing start this week, thanks to being featured at Rockstar Finance!  One of my goals when I started this blog was to be featured in J. Money’s collection of awesome articles.  This accomplishment really motivates me to keep writing and working hard to make this site something special.  Next on the list . . .  it’s time to make some more friends and offer to do guest posts.  Anyone interested?  Also, I have some new ideas thanks to this great article on ways to make money blogging.

Our family’s go-to snack are these granola bars.  Everyone likes them and I use credit earned from Swagbucks so they don’t cost anything.  I recently cashed in Amazon credits to purchase diapers and granola bars.  The shipment arrived with the reduced sugar variety – not what I ordered.  When I reported receiving the wrong product, Amazon provided a full refund and I didn’t have to return them.  Moral of the story: speak up!  We ended up with 12 boxes of granola bars, for free 🙂  A small win, but helpful nonetheless.

Housekeeping

closetMy newfound project to upcycle / refashion my wardrobe has also inspired me to organize my closet.  I have a large shelf that runs along the top and it tends to collect miscellaneous items.  In my previous, non-frugal life, I might have run out to purchase some type of plastic bin or other type of organizer.  However, my priorities have changed and while tidiness is good, I’m not spending money unless it’s necessary.  The solution?  Diaper boxes that were headed for the recycling bin.  All it took was a couple of minutes with a box cutter and I can even hang shoes on the side.

I gave Goofball a much-needed haircut.  It takes me a while because I go so slowly, but the end-product looks decent.  I would offer to do a tutorial, but it’s really just a modified bowl cut.  I may need to start watching some how-to videos.  He’s starting kindergarten this September and Mom’s styling might not be cool enough for him anymore.

One of the ways we’re saving money this year is with a large garden of vegetables.  It was hard work, but everything is now planted.  We will hopefully be harvesting tomatoes, cucumbers, zucchini, eggplant, broccoli, green peppers, and peas in the near future.

Homeschooling

My favorite activity last week?  Goofball wrote out a letter to his deployed uncle.  He has been working on writing out and reading basic words.  He dictated the letter to me.  Then, I helped him copy the words in his own handwriting.  Uncle is going to be so impressed with Goofball.

While it’s not exactly school, we really need to work on potty training with Tornado.  She is making progress, but it’s so sporadic.  I’m hopeful that if we devote a few days to working with her, that she will finally get it.

Crafts / DIY

I finished my sweatskirt upcyle project and love it – post coming tomorrow.

We found a nice dresser on the curb in our neighborhood.  Mr. Smith is going to refinish it for Tornado, as hers is currently falling apart.  Don’t feel too bad for the old dresser though.  I purchased it off Craigslist for $15 and used it for both Tornado and Goofball.  I will post before and after pictures, of course.

 

On Memorial Day, we try to remember those lives lost to protect our freedom.  I will try to honor their sacrifice by living my life according to my own terms instead of blindly conforming to the accepted path.  I will exercise my freedom.  To be free means different things to different people.  We’re working towards the ability to dictate the design of our lives.  The goal is financial semi-independence.  We don’t want to retire.  We want to choose our work and make our own schedule instead of being forced to cram everything into weekends and holidays.  For me, it will be miscellaneous freelancing, writing, and maybe teaching a college course.  Mr. Smith will do some repair and maintenance work, most likely on our rental properties.  We are both hard workers, that’s why this goal is perfect for us.  Our debt prevents us form achieving early retirement, but we wouldn’t want it.  I truly believe that everything happens for a reason.  We made mistakes and have amassed a large amount of debt.   However, our current circumstance propels us and provides the motivation necessary to make extreme changes to our lifestyle.  These hopefully permanent changes will allow us to achieve a life that is perfect for us.
Make sure always to remember that we are the land of the free, because of the brave.  Don’t squander that freedom – choose your own path.

 

 

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