Update: Stubbornly Refusing To Give Up On Our Rental Property And Revising Our Plan

You may have noticed a few recent references to stressed-out Mr. Smith.  I commented in response to Mrs. Groovy’s positivity challenge, that I really wanted to find a way to help my husband be a little more thankful and relaxed.  The key was figuring out the root of his anxiety.  As with anything, there are usually a number of factors worthy of some blame, but I think we were able to single out one of the major ones: our rental property.  Now, we’re strategizing to adjust our plan, so that everyone can be a little happier for this part of our journey.

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The History Of Our Rental Property

Once upon a time, we were an engaged couple.  I had just finished undergraduate school and we decided to buy a house together.  Mr. Smith provided a small down payment with some inheritance from his mom (she died when he was five).   We purchased a two-bedroom Cape Cod in a small suburban city (approximately 850-900 square feet).  We took out a 30-year mortgage for $83,000.  It was 2004.

Mr. Smith and I got married the following year and then proceeded to enjoyed our cozy home for eight years.  In 2012, Goofball celebrated his second birthday and soon after, I was pregnant with Tornado.  We decided that it was time to move.

We found a new house that was perfect for a growing family, three houses down from Mr. Smith’s childhood home.  Let me tell you firsthand, there are tons of benefits to having Grandpa and Uncle as neighbors.  We weren’t quite on the path to financial independence just yet, but Mr. Smith had always wanted to manage property.  We crunched the numbers and found out that we could afford both mortgages (well, kind of, we did continue to build up consumer debt for a while longer).  However, we needed to rent it out right away.

The problem with immediately putting our house on the rental market was that it needed a lot of work (this was another reason why we opted against trying to sell the old house).  Mr. Smith had started remodeling the kitchen, but there were mismatched cupboards and unfinished drywall.  The huge attic was promising for another bedroom or two, but it still needed to be finished.  The bathroom needed a ton of updating.  There was even a small hole in one of the bedroom floors.

How were we supposed to finance these repairs while taking on two mortgages?  Thankfully, our friend came along with a solution.  He was a bachelor and excited about getting a whole house to himself.  He’s very into music and liked the freedom he would have to make noise, in comparison to his previous living quarters in an apartment building.  He agreed to put up with the not-so-great aesthetics and with Mr. Smith coming in to do repairs from time to time.  In exchange, we gave him a really good rate on rent.

This really good rate was less than our mortgage payment.  We decided to go forward with the arrangement because we would be (1) helping out a friend; (2) building equity in the property; and (3) creating an asset that could be used for income in our future.  And, the arrangement was only supposed to a short-term one.  It all seemed like a good idea, back then . . . almost four years ago.

 

Current Status

We have not done much at all to the house in the past four years.  Our friend is still there, happily paying us rent, but the property has even more issues now.  Mr. Smith has removed most of the dilapidated siding, but now the house also needs to be sanded and painted.  There is a front deck/concrete slab that needs to be fixed up.  All of the shutters need to be repaired.  And, the list goes on and on.

We were overly optimistic about finding time to do work on our rental property.  Mr. Smith has all of the tools and know-how, but none of the time.  He sometimes has trouble getting over there just to mow the lawn.  But also, it’s kind of hard to buy materials when you’re battling to pay down tens of thousands of dollars in debt.  The only real positive (besides our content friend) is that the mortgage has continued to decrease.  We now owe less than $50,000 on this property.

I could tell that Mr. Smith was becoming increasingly frustrated with the lack of progress on fixing up the rental property.  He has it all planned out, but never has the opportunity to do any work.  Instead, he’s just watching it deteriorate even further.  Mr. Smith takes on a lot of responsibilities for both houses and extra money-saving chores like car maintenance and collecting and splitting firewood.  And, I need his help with much of the day-to-day tasks in order to work my bread-winning job and do all of my freelance work on the side.

 

A New Plan

We’re adjusting our schedules so that Mr. Smith can have at least one day per week to work on the property without kids in tow.  He’s cutting back on working his job.  In fact, it’s going to be more of a side hustle for him now, something for when he has extra time.  His boss was very flexible to begin with and has agreed to give Mr. Smith some time off to work on this big project.  The new arrangement will allow him to take care of things around the house, handle more child-care responsibilities (like daycare drop-off and pick-up), and work on the rental property.  As for me, his extra help will give me more time to complete work for my main job and pick up more side hustles.

Mr. Smith has been over at the rental property for the past two days sanding the back of the house, to be painted.  Yep, it doesn’t look so hot right now.  But, you can look forward to lots of before and after pictures 🙂

 

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The beautiful back of the rental property

 

What Does This Decision Mean For Our Finances?

Our new situation creates several problems, including less income from Mr. Smith and needing some money to pay for materials.  And, there is costly daycare to consider as well.  They go three days per week right now.  He can’t bring the two little ones with him to do the remodeling work, but he can do many other chores with them (and maybe even convince Tornado to help him).  We’ve run the numbers and the financial effects are manageable.  Mr. Smith did not make that much money working as a construction apprentice.  I may need to do a bit more freelance side work, but the assignments seem to be picking up lately.  There is also another term life insurance cash-out coming our way in the next month or so.

We shouldn’t face a financial setback, mainly because we’re finally out of that danger zone of just having enough money to to pay the bills and all of the minimum amounts due.  We did refinance all of the larger-interest rate credit cards and still expect to only have that debt consolidation loan left by the end of the year (no more credit cards!!!).  But our progress might be slower for a little while.  Once the repairs are complete, we can work on finding new tenants.  We’re anticipating an increase of at least $600-$700 per month in rental income.  Once we reach that point, we’ll be in a much better position to up our game of paying off all of the debt, including student loans and mortgages.

This decision really comes down to the realization that we can’t just live life for the future.  Mr. Smith is unhappy and disappointed right now, by the lack of progress on the rental property.  We’re going to make this work for him, and the end result will help us reach our goals.  Sure, it might make more sense to unload the property for whatever equity possible, so we can pay off debt.  However, I know that such a decision would make Mr. Smith feel like a complete failure.  This whole plan is based on the ideal of a more-meaningful life for everyone in our family.  Fixing up and managing the rental property is important to Mr. Smith, so we’ll just have to find a way to make it happen.

What do you think?  Are we being stupid and stubborn?  Want to come over and help us do some work on the place?  I’ll make food for you 🙂

16 Replies to “Update: Stubbornly Refusing To Give Up On Our Rental Property And Revising Our Plan”

  1. Kim from Philadelphia

    Harmony, it sounds like you and your husband have given much thought and consideration to this plan. It’s so validating to him that you recognize the importance of restoring and maintaining this property as part of his “happiness quotient”
    It’s important that you can see the temporary cost and inconvenience for long term financial game. Having the tax write off, your mortgage covered, plus potentially $700 a month passive income profit makes a lot of sense.
    I hope this new plan removes some stress from your husband, and hopefully no new stress added to your plate!

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    1. Harmony Post author

      Thanks for your encouragement and support Kim! The long-term benefit is a significant one, I just hope it doesn’t take too long to get there.

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  2. Maggie @ Northern Expenditure

    I think it’s a good move. I’ve already told Mr. T if work ever gets to that point for him, he needs to just quit and we’ll figure it out from there. It’s NOT WORTH being miserable now. But you have to balance the future as well. It’s a tough call, but I think for now, you’re setting yourselves up for being happier now AND better off financially in the future.
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    1. Harmony Post author

      Thank you Maggie! I feel fairly confident that this is the right decision for us, but there are always so many unknowns in the future. Sometimes you just have to go with your gut and hope for the best.

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  3. Mrs Groovy

    I think it’s a good move too especially since the alternative would make Mr. Smith feel like a complete failure. That’ s something we need to be protective over because some men don’t bounce back too easily.

    We had a rental property where just getting over there to mow the grass a few times a month was a horrible chore combined with a regular work schedule. If Mr. Smith can spend less time at the job and get a few wins under his belt with the rental, that would be awesome.
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    1. Harmony Post author

      Yes, unhappy hubby = unhappy family. New projects can give you a sense of excitement and drive, and the end product of this one will provide us with a significant financial benefit. Thanks for stopping by and providing some additional validation that we’re making the right decision.

      BTW, since you’re retiring in another month, you’ll have a lot of extra time *hint hint* What would most entice you to come help us get some of this work done . . . homemade meal, baked goods, cute children to play with, and/or crochet lessons?

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  4. Claudia @ Two Cup House

    We’ve been here before. I remember how frustrated both of us were with the house and its repairs. Garrett was fatigued and stressed because the work kept getting piled on. Ultimately, we also devised a plan to help us get everything tackled as quickly as possible, even though it meant spending more up front.

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    1. Harmony Post author

      I guess that sometimes, you just have to tough it out and give any project some extra effort, so it doesn’t drag on forever. All of our efforts will make a big difference in the long term.

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  5. Money Beagle

    It sounds like you have a plan. Just from the one picture and the description, it sounds like a lot of work that could get overwhelming. If he knows anybody or finds someone, he might want to see about potentially getting a little bit of help. Of course that will cost more money, but it could really go a long way in completing more items and having the list shrink at a good clip.
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    1. Harmony Post author

      It definitely is a lot work, so you make a really good point. Fortunately, his boss from the remodeling work is also his friend. I am fairly confident that Mr. Boss-man would be willing to help out here and there on some of the more difficult tasks.

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  6. Basil

    Wow! You all have a lot going on. I’m impressed that you’re on top of jobs, side hustles, a blog, housework, a rental, and oh yeah…kids! I’m just a year into full-time work and still trying to make that work…

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    1. Harmony Post author

      Thanks so much!! It’s not easy and there are plenty of days when we struggle. I think that my best tip is to figure out where you’re wasting time. Everyone does, it’s just a matter of figuring out where you can put a few hours to more productive use. One is example is how I listen to audio books during my commute to work. Instead of just sitting in the car, I’ve found a way to “read” books – something I could never find time to do lately. Good luck, and feel free to shoot me an email if you want to chat 🙂

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  7. Suzy

    I just found your site. I think the rental property will definitely turn out to be worth all the hassle. When you get a new tenant, however, I think you could arrange that it is the tenant’s responsibility to mow. Maybe they can even use their own mower. That is an annoying, time-consuming, thankless job, that needs to be done, and you are not even enjoying the fruits of that labor. The tenant is.
    I like how thoughtful you are about all the decisions, incorporating everyone’s feelings and motivations, and not just the bottom line.

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    1. Harmony Post author

      Thanks so much for stopping by Suzy! That is a really great idea. Our friend, who is the current tenant, has really bad back problems, so we never really considered asking him to do the mowing. But it’s definitely something to think about with new tenants.

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  8. Elizabeth Estelle

    We also have a rental. One thing we did was leave a “cheap” mower at the property and make it a tenant responsibility. Maybe that is one thing Mr. Smith can delegate. I don’t know if you like to read but Robert Kiyosaki’s book Rich Dad Poor Dad Managing Rental properties is a good read. Best wishes!

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    1. Harmony Post author

      Hi Elizabeth! The cheap mower is a good idea. We will definitely do something like that once we have new tenants (our friend has really bad problems with his back). Thanks for the suggestion – I will add it to my to-read list.

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